posted by Twimfy on Oct 2, 2009:
Ouch things got heavy last night. She basically said we have to stop the shenanigans because she feels too involved. She wants a relationship but doesn't want to get into one because she's going to australia for 3 months in january.
I said fair enough and walked out of her room and left her to it. 10 mins later she knocked on my door and well, oops, it slipped in again.
I think that's definitely the last time too, shame really cos I was getting quite into her.
10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!
10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!
posted by Jamtex on Oct 2, 2009:
Short term relationships are wonderful
I've had quite a few in the last few years and find them quite liberating.
I don't want a relationship because I'm going to a foreign country for a long period of time, well boo hoo, it just normally means, I don't want to feel guilty if I have sex with someone more atractive then you.
I'm sure it'll accidently slip in a few more times before she goes to oz, although not in the sense that she'll fall over, lose her clothes in the process and you'll go to help her up and your clothes will be blown off and you'll trip and it'll accidently slip in.
Short term relationships are wonderful
I've had quite a few in the last few years and find them quite liberating.I don't want a relationship because I'm going to a foreign country for a long period of time, well boo hoo, it just normally means, I don't want to feel guilty if I have sex with someone more atractive then you.
I'm sure it'll accidently slip in a few more times before she goes to oz, although not in the sense that she'll fall over, lose her clothes in the process and you'll go to help her up and your clothes will be blown off and you'll trip and it'll accidently slip in.
10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!
posted by Parris on Oct 3, 2009:
You have until January to make a massive impression then dude. :nod:
Fraudian slip?
Twimfy said:
...I was getting quite into her...
You have until January to make a massive impression then dude. :nod:
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posted by Vosse on Oct 3, 2009:
I personally workout 4 days a week. But I do it to be healthy and for my own personal benefit.
Why do relationships have to be based so much on sex :-/ lol
IMHO it's almost entirely superficial from a point of view.
GaijinPunch said:
your best chances of getting action again:
1: you play hard to get
2: go fuck someone else hotter than her, or has a feature she lacks
3: alcohol
4: all of the above, FTW.
Oh, ande pictures please.
It maybe superficial, but it's totally good for you to: get the fuck in shape! Helps the confidence and the appearance.
I personally workout 4 days a week. But I do it to be healthy and for my own personal benefit.
Why do relationships have to be based so much on sex :-/ lol
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posted by alecjahn on Oct 3, 2009:
The worst is when you don't feel that's a factor. And though it's in your mind, it still gets fucked regardless.
Vosse said:
Why do relationships have to be based so much on sex :-/ lol
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posted by GaijinPunch on Oct 3, 2009:
B/c you can talk to anyone.
Why do relationships have to be based so much on sex :-/ lol
10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!
posted by K-Panggg on Oct 5, 2009:
I mean, if you're both into each other, then three months are nothing... how long have you been shagging her for?
So, was it the last time?
Twimfy said:
Ouch things got heavy last night. She basically said we have to stop the shenanigans because she feels too involved. She wants a relationship but doesn't want to get into one because she's going to australia for 3 months in january.
I said fair enough and walked out of her room and left her to it. 10 mins later she knocked on my door and well, oops, it slipped in again.
I think that's definitely the last time too, shame really cos I was getting quite into her.
I mean, if you're both into each other, then three months are nothing... how long have you been shagging her for?
10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!
posted by Twimfy on Oct 18, 2009:
'Bout a week.
Had a big emotional bust up at the weekend where I told her that I wanted nothing to do with her (I was wasted and had just been to a strip club). Then oddly she came to my parents for the day to walk the dogs with me.
Got back, had a staff meeting then she jumped me in the car, shagged her again this morning. Now I don't know what the fuck is going on but I'm just gonna roll with it. Going to her mums in Portsmouth on sunday for lunch as well. Weird times.
I guess it's true what they say, women can't seperate sex and emotions.
Anyway, here's a pic as promised, won't leave it up long though.
'Bout a week.
Had a big emotional bust up at the weekend where I told her that I wanted nothing to do with her (I was wasted and had just been to a strip club). Then oddly she came to my parents for the day to walk the dogs with me.
Got back, had a staff meeting then she jumped me in the car, shagged her again this morning. Now I don't know what the fuck is going on but I'm just gonna roll with it. Going to her mums in Portsmouth on sunday for lunch as well. Weird times.
I guess it's true what they say, women can't seperate sex and emotions.
Anyway, here's a pic as promised, won't leave it up long though.
10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!
posted by GaijinPunch on Oct 5, 2009:
I endorse this shag -- whatever it may stand for.
I endorse this shag -- whatever it may stand for.
10yr Relationship has ended.. need tips!
posted by K-Panggg on Oct 5, 2009:
Ok, she's pretty.
And in my experience, being a woman myself, it is kinda hard to separate sex from emotional attachment. And believe me, I've been in some relationships that really damaged my self esteem because of it.
So, my advice would be to put all the cards on the table and speak to her about what's going on and what you both think is the best course of action to follow for you both.
Of course, you both enjoy the sex, WHO DOESN'T?
But that's not the point, the point here is that both of you may be getting into something hard to get by in the future. So that's the point of my advice....
Ok, she's pretty.
And in my experience, being a woman myself, it is kinda hard to separate sex from emotional attachment. And believe me, I've been in some relationships that really damaged my self esteem because of it.
So, my advice would be to put all the cards on the table and speak to her about what's going on and what you both think is the best course of action to follow for you both.
Of course, you both enjoy the sex, WHO DOESN'T?
But that's not the point, the point here is that both of you may be getting into something hard to get by in the future. So that's the point of my advice....